Tom & Linda Day

Sunday, February 1, 2015

NEWS FROM THE DAYS - JANUARY 2015

February 1, 2015

DAY FAMILY NEWSLETTER – JANUARY 2015

Christmas day brought about 10 inches of snow. Nothing since. What happened to winter? Perhaps it’s too soon to count winter out. We’re headed to St. George next Thursday to spend a 4 nights for short get-a-way. Looking forward to temps in the 60’s while there. I’ll stop by Danny’s to sign another year’s lease on the way back. Danny broke another two crowns, an ongoing issue with him. He said the last one was when he was eating a Ritz cracker…..go figure.

Not a lot on the calendar this past month. I stopped smoking 13 years ago – I keep tract of it like a birthday and celebrate every January 5th. I keep reading/hearing of all the good news in our country – unemployment way down, the economy growing every quarter, housing up, stock market way up, all the leading economic indicators up, basically good times. I blame Obama. Speaking of politics, Romney announced he’s not running in 2016. Too bad – now the republicans have a chance of winning the White House. I don’t think the country can stomach Hilary Clinton – me included. I still remember the last go around, when about 9 candidates on the republican side traded months leading the pack because nobody really wanted Romney, and month by month, the current month’s leader would stick their foot in their mouth, or have some embarrassing past issue brought up, and another candidate would take the lead for a month or so. Of the 9 or so candidates that would appear on stage in the debates, the only one who didn’t lead the pack at one point or another was Jon Huntsman, Utah’s former governor. I could actually support him, as he is a moderate similar to me. Of course in Utah, a moderate is a flaming democrat, about as far left as you can get on the plank without being ousted to Nevada with Senator Reid.

Linda and I saw a very good play at the U this past month, The Alabama Story. Just a great reminder of the prejudice that existed just 55 years ago in the late 50’s when we all grew up. The play is all about a children’s book about two bunny rabbits that live in the forest and get married. The author and illustrator, when designing the book, made one bunny black and one white to distinguish male versus female. But to a legislator in Alabama, this children’s book was encouraging children to accept interracial marriage between a male and female in the human race. I think it’s going to take another generation, maybe two, for this mind set to completely disappear.

We also saw a couple of movies – Birdman – we still can’t figure that one out. And The Theory of Everything, about Steve Hawkins, an excellent movie. We joined Stephanie and her kids to a day trip to The Hardware Ranch east of the Logan area. They have been feeding elk there since the 1940’s to encourage them from migrating down into the Logan valley where they disrupt farm life. The State of Utah sets up wagon tours pulled by horses that take you right through the 400 to 500 elk that don’t seem to mind the people or horses on the wagons within 10 to 15 feet away. The person guiding the horses stops several times and talks about the elk, the tradition, history and interesting facts surrounding their migration and habitat. They do this December through March, and when there’s enough snow, the wagon is replaced by a sleigh. Our trip was on a wagon with wheels. We stopped in Logan to go to one of the cheese factory stores, Gossner I believe, and bought locally produced milk in cartons that doesn’t need refrigeration, cheese and butter. Then we stopped at a local Mexican restaurant recommended by Shelley. A nice trip, although when I asked Jessica (age 12) on the ride back home if she would rate the trip to the elk as a 7 or 8, she said, no, maybe a 5.

Speaking of Jessica, she recently participated in a ballroom dance contest between schools, and won a gold ribbon. She takes ballroom dancing as an extracurricular activity in the 6th grade, and is looking forward to trying out for the school play next week. Christopher, Debbie’s 25 year old, and his girlfriend, Mariah, have announced a new edition to the family due in mid March. Debbie is putting together a baby shower in a few weeks for Mariah. It looks like the Day name will live on, as they are expecting a boy.

A lady neighbor across the street came down ill at Thanksgiving, was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer at Christmas, and died three weeks later. We attended her funeral, and can’t believe how one’s life can come to an end so abruptly without any advance warning. Her husband Chris is an all around carpenter who builds cabinets in his garage, as well as remodels homes. He put in the safety rails in our bathrooms and handrail on our basement stairs when Linda had knee surgery and needed more safety. We discovered we were in the same National Guard unit as medics at the same time, but didn’t really know each other personally. He went to Ft. Ord in California for his training, while I went to Ft. Polk in Louisiana. We both went to Ft. Sam Houston in San Antonio, but at different times. Small world.

Linda crocheted a baby blanket for her hairdresser’s new baby born a week ago. And we enjoy using her washcloths in the kitchen that she has crocheted over the past year. Linda is not delighted to start prep for her scheduled colonoscopy in three days. I mean, three days prior, there are dos and don’ts as to what to eat – this all in addition to the dreaded night before activities leading up to the required procedure all elderly people get to enjoy in their old age! Or not! And it will be performed by Dr. Sosselheimer, the same doctor who performed my first colonoscopy 15 years ago on Halloween day. I’ll never forget being wheeled into the procedure room groggy, and looking up at this tall man dressed as a nurse with lipstick on – remember – it was Halloween day, and him introducing himself as my doctor……………for a colonoscopy…….and then I was out.

And that’s the news, the whole news, and the only true news from Zion. Tom

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Day Family Newsletter - December 2014

January 1, 2015

DAY FAMILY NEWSLETTER – DEC. 2014

Christmas always highlights music for me. In fact, music is a big part of my life, even though I don't sing in a choir or play the piano much anymore. But listening to music, now that's a passion of mine. Gospel, blues, rock & roll, LDS hymns, Christmas music....and on and on. Sometimes lying in bed at night before going to sleep, I find myself humming/composing in my mind gospel or blues type music, improvising the melody all over the place. Am I nuts, or do any of you do something similar?

We enjoyed having dinner one evening with Shelley as we exchanged books to read, got her Santa $ for Danny's Christmas, delivered gifts (for Danny and hers to us). We also took Linda's brother, Steve to dinner one night for his Christmas gift. Had dinner another night with friends. And we enjoyed New Years Eve with friends at dinner as well. Today, we attended Mark & Pat Tsuyuki's son's (Chris) wedding & reception. Very nice - held in one of the beautiful garden rooms of a local mortuary - they have several garden rooms they rent out for weddings or special occasions.

We had a wonderful Christmas with all the kids/grandkids. As usual, Linda prepared a nice turkey/ham sandwich buffet with deviled eggs, salads, stuffing, veggie tray, cheese ball and lots of other treats/deserts. It snowed early Christmas morning, and we awoke to about 5 or 6 inches on snow. It didn't stop, and by the time nightfall came, we had about 10 inches - I had to shovel three times. This is the first real snow storm of the year in Salt Lake. Because of the heavy snow, Steph and her kids slept over Christmas night before heading back home the next day. Because I kept snoring, little Taylor (6 yrs old) kept waking me up to tell me to stop snoring. She finally got in her Mom's bed after 4 or 5 attempts to get me to stop snoring.

I spent a half day with Danny attending his annual DSPD meeting with the state rep and TURN rep. All went well. I took him Christmas shopping for $15 gift cards (Subway) for siblings and a few tins of popcorn or chocolates for friends. We attended Danny's 71st birthday bash at Chuck-O-Rama in Lehi that Derek organized. About 30 to 35 people came, and it was fun visiting with old group home house parents, cousins, nephews/nieces.

Linda gave all the kids the washcloths she made with a wooden spoon and candy cane. She also gave the lady who does her hair a nice throw she crocheted for her new baby coming in a few months. Linda and I shopped this year at a garden center for three of our girls who garden. We put together a basket full of veggie seeds, miracle grow, spade tools, markers to label rows of veggies, some garden art - like a head start on next year's garden.

Attended Jack’s first piano recital (Katie & Bills 5 year old) – so proud of him. Linda and I saw Peter & the Star catcher, a good play at the U of U. While I watched the U of U football bowl game, Linda, Steph and kids and Debbie’s Kaylee went to see the movie Annie. They also spent the day making Christmas candy & cookies. Kaylee slept over that night. Linda and I saw a good movie called Big Eyes. I was rooting for BYU in their bowl game, although the post game festivities reminded me of ward b-ball. I’ll never forget Jim Wooley walking out of the bleacher seats during an M-Men b-ball game and flooring the ref with a roundhouse right because he didn’t like the call he just made. Or the skirmishes in general and roughhouse action under the boards in many games during my ward b-ball days. Sally Heath’s boyfriend (a U of U football player named Merlin Driggs if I remember right), weighing in at about 250 pounds compared to my 135 pounds at age 19, told me while running down the court side by side that if I touched him again, he would floor me on the spot. I guess I was a little rough on him working on rebound position.

I started exercising again this past month per doctor orders. This, to extend life/improve quality of life. We keep seeing examples people we know who are having major health issues, and we’d just assume not being another statistic. On a more positive note, today I had two “dream headlines” published in the SL Tribune newspaper. It’s an annual thing they do, asking people to think of headlines they would like to see in the newspaper in the coming year – serious or light hearted. Mine were “Prison replaces oil refineries” (they are trying to decide if moving the prison to another location would be wise, but there is much public opposition to having a prison moved to their area), and the polluting North Salt Lake oil refineries are a big contributor to our annual inversions. The second one: “Jazz trade Toyota dealership for Durrant” – a more light hearted one.

I read a book Shelley got me about a Mormon growing up in Bountiful and his life/trials/adventures/music passion. She knows the authors brother, and now I’m going to read the 2nd book covering his teenage years and mission. The author is now working on the post mission and 3rd and final book. I am currently reading Jon Huntsman Sr.’s book, “Barefoot to Billionaire”. As he is our second cousin, don’t you think it would be proper for him to set aside a few million for each of us?

And that’s the news. Happy New Year. Tom & Linda